The headings indicate when we became friends. ‘*’ means we’re not close. The more ‘*’, the more distant the friendship.
5 or 6 years old
Teacher Carol (piano)
Sec 1
Bernice*
Sec 3
Shu Ying energetic, independent, intelligent, powerful, sentimental, spontaneous.
Shu Ying callous, chaotic, overdramatic, rash, violent.
Vincent energetic, idealistic, independent, intelligent, knowledgeable, sentimental.
Li Huan bold, cheerful, idealistic, intelligent, self-conscious.
Li Huan foolish, insecure, irrational, loud, rash.
Shun Fa bold, energetic, observant, silly, spontaneous, witty.
Shun Fa childish, cynical, impatient, inattentive, insecure, intolerant.
Christie*
Hong Kai* extroverted, happy, idealistic, responsive, silly.
Matthew** giving, helpful, intelligent, sentimental, witty.
Sid*** complex, friendly, intelligent, self-conscious, sentimental.
Craig*** bold, cheerful, complex, energetic, independent, quiet.
Anonymous impatient, insecure, intolerant, lethargic, passive, violent.
JC 1
Hui Qing bold, helpful, intelligent, knowledgeable, sentimental, shy.
Hui Qing ignorant, impatient, loud, overdramatic, rash.
Samantha cheerful, intelligent, responsive, shy, sympathetic, wise.
Samantha chaotic, embarrassed, insecure, rash, simple.
Fanny complex, extroverted, organised, sentimental, spontaneous, witty.
Fanny blasé, brash, panicky, passive, rash.
Florence* clever, organised, searching, self-assertive, spontaneous.
Florence* brash, chaotic, impatient, loud, rash.
Chee Kiang**
Raymond** able, confident, energetic, intelligent, tense.
Mark**bold, cheerful, energetic, friendly, intelligent.
Aravind***
Robert**** bold, caring, complex, searching, tense, witty.
Uni
Jonathan* complex, introverted, logical, self-conscious, shy.
Wei Yi*
Anonymous cheerful, giving, idealistic, intelligent, silly, spontaneous.
| Votes (X) | Corresponding traits with X number of votes (out of 17 voters for J, 8 voters for N) | ||||||
| 10 | intelligent | ||||||
| 6 | bold | energetic | sentimental | rash | |||
| 5 | cheerful | complex | spontaneous | ||||
| 4 | idealistic | witty | impatient | insecure | |||
| 3 | independent | self-conscious | shy | silly | chaotic | loud | |
| 2 | extroverted | friendly | giving | helpful | knowledgeable | organised | responsive |
| searching | tense | brash | intolerant | overdramatic | passive | violent | |
| 1 | able | caring | clever | confident | happy | introverted | logical |
| observant | powerful | quiet | self-assertive | sympathetic | wise | blasé | |
| callous | childish | cynical | embarrassed | foolish | ignorant | inattentive | |
| irrational | lethargic | panicky | simple | ||||
Black font: Johari. Gray font: Nohari. Traits in bold were the ones I picked for myself. Apparently I made a mistake in picking “friendly” and “cynical” =P. Well, I still think I’m generally friendly =X I guess it’s just not outstanding enough. I don’t want to be cynical anymore, anyway. My Nohari was set up in 2005 so it’s a little outdated.
I have two votes for “extroverted” and one for “introverted”. Ok, not enough evidence to reject either one. (That’s nice, I’m probably somewhere in the middle). I also have one vote each for “logical” and “irrational” =D. And I’m not “powerful”. Shu Ying, what were you thinking? I’m not sure about “self-assertive”. Hmm. And “tense”. I don’t think I’m tense. Apathetic, yes.
Notable changes from secondary school to jc/uni:
Energetic: 4 votes to 2 votes (Damn you sedentary lifestyle.)
Idealistic: 3 votes to none (I still have my ideals.)
Independent: 3 votes to none (I lose my independence as I grow older. Thanks a lot.)
Introverted: none to 1 vote
Organised: none to 2 votes
Searching: none to 2 votes
Sentimental: 4 votes to 2 votes
Shy: none to 3 votes
Brash: none to 2 votes
Insecure: 3 votes to 1 vote (I think I’m still very insecure.)
Intolerant: 2 votes to none
Rash: 2 votes to 4 votes
Violent: 2 votes to none
